What Love, Sxx, and Money Have in Common
This one made me extremely uncomfortable to share. Here I was, in the middle of one of the most fun and effortless interviews I’ve ever done with my friend, the host of the Expansive CEO podcast, Hannah Chapman, and then I asked for her consent to go into a topic that is admittedly extremely uncomfortable […]
This One Will Be A Spicy One
Masterclass #2: UNPACKING and PREVENTING INFIDELITY Is the relationship Salvageable? Understanding the Impact of Polarity and Our Sexual Shadows In the raw aftermath of infidelity, a cloud of confusion, pain, and mistrust hangs heavy. The question at the forefront of many minds: “Is our bond truly broken, or can it be mended?” In this masterclass, […]
Sxxless Relationship: The Silent Struggle
I’m no stranger to Facebook’s algorithmic iron fist. I just got shadowbanned for talking about this– which is why I had to think outside the box. A topic as poignant as this deserves a dedicated space. I’ll tell you what I came up with to solve this– at the end. Mandy and Jim hadn’t had […]
The Impact Of My Sxxual Shadows On My Relationships
Last week, during the kickoff of my signature Overview Experience, I found myself candidly sharing a deeply personal experience. It’s not often that I delve into such vulnerable topic— which are my sxxual shadows, but I felt compelled to discuss my past – a past marred by unresolved shadows that sent my relationship spiraling into […]
Women With Men Who Watch P0rn
This was the question recently asked in our fb community, evoking deep, personal responses. A particular reflection from one woman stood out about her challenge with sxx. “Competing with p0rn and the unrealistic expectations from men engrossed in it is overwhelming. For me, sxxual intimacy is an act of deep emotional bonding. It’s a sacred […]
Confessions Of A Former Avoidant-Player Commitment-Phobe
(3 minute read) To ladies navigating through the tumultuous waters of insecure relationship dynamics, and yes, to my fellow former commitment-phobes — lend me your “ear”. Once upon a time, I wore the hat of the avoidant, the player, the commitment-phobe. I danced the dance of distance, of evasion, expertly maintaining a buffer between my […]
Healing Love, Sex, And Money Conditioning
HEALING LOVE, SEX, AND MONEY CONDITIONING (POP UP FACEBOOK GROUP)August 10th- September 29th For All Participants of Rewire: Love, Sex, and Money(and open to everyone who is the right fit- Disclaimer at the bottom) Announcing a Masterclass Series as a “Pre-Course” for all our Participants of our upcoming “Rewire: Love, Sex, and Money” event– September […]
From Relationship Limbo To Finding Purpose
Working in the field of healing Trauma Bonds, having a pretty strong (and controversial) opinion about what it takes to HEAL when many therapies and modalities simply help people just COPE… The topic of taking ownership and responsibility for how we show up in relationships is a very heated, and often misunderstood point I share, […]
The Goal Of Becoming Respectful To Yourself
DEAR PEOPLE PLEASER IN RECOVERY, it’s not your fault that you are wearing a mask. Growing up, if you’ve ever been punished or scolded for your authentic self expression, it makes perfect sense why you might want to hide certain aspects of yourself. The problem is, this is a double edged sword, as it will […]
Why We Choose The Partners We Do
If you’re ever been stuck in a loop, repeating the same pattern in your relationship dynamic, pay close attention: Freud called it the “Repetition Compulsion,” where even though you KNOW it’s not wise, or fulfilling, or even healthy, but unconscious forces are pulling us into what’s familiar to us. All for the purpose of healing. […]