Lives Transformed

4,000+ people have used the Trigger Proof method to break free from reactive patterns, heal attachment wounds, and build the secure relationships they deserve. Here are some of their stories.

Real Stories. Real Transformation.

Hear It In Their Words

"I feel like a weight's been lifted out of my stomach."

The last twenty years living in denial… I realized when my dad died, I wasn’t present. I carried that with me for a really long time. Yesterday, I was able to start getting it out, and I just started breaking down crying. I didn’t even cry after my dad died for a year and a half. Since then, I’ve had really in-depth conversations with people I would never normally feel comfortable talking emotions with. 

— Christopher David

"It's like this weight off of my shoulders. So liberating."

The biggest thing I got out of it was this peaceful calmness—no matter what happens in the outside realm, everything’s gonna be okay. I had insomnia. I was depressed. My sex drive was nonexistent. I was doing all these healthy things, but the inner game was horrible. Now my blood pressure is normal. I feel so at peace. If I can give advice to anyone, especially all the dudes out there: embrace the crying. Be willing and open to be vulnerable.

— Hanro Roos 

"I've stopped taking my anxiety medication. I'm able to self-regulate."

In the past few months, just with the things I’ve been learning and my ability to be more courageous and not be so afraid to say what I’m really feeling—it’s physically changed me. My stomach issues have been a lot better. But the mental side is the biggest piece. When I’m struggling now, I’m not running away from the shit I have to deal with. I can see it from both sides. I can put myself in my husband’s shoes or my kid’s shoes and come at it from a completely different angle. 

— Kyla Shelefontiuk

"I look in the mirror and I love myself now. I haven't had a migraine in a full month."

I usually have six or seven migraines a month. I actually used to look at myself in the mirror and say ‘I hate you.’ All my resentment towards my mother was that she wasn’t there for me. I thought, how is this benefiting me? Then I realized it probably gets stuck in your body. Now I’ve noticed my daughter opens up more to me— and that’s a great feeling.

— Valerie Smith

"For the first time, I actually said 'I love you' to my mom and actually meant it."

To go from not talking to her for four years to being quite happy to share and actually want to talk to her. All I could think was, we’ve all got our own stories and that’s her story. It’s probably the first time I can remember where I’ve actually said I love you at the end of the call—not just because I felt like I should.

— Vivienne David

"My mentor said, 'I really liked the humility of the grounded, less resistance showing up and just being real.'"

The big thing for me was the lack of self-acknowledgment. All the great accomplishments I’d achieved—having a young boy, building a business—and really just getting caught in my head. Ego driven, showing up cocky coming from fear. My cousin said, ‘Every time I’ve spoken to you, it’s always been yeah, I’m smashing it. Now I feel like I can relate to you a lot more.’

— Fabien Pataud

"For the first time ever in my career, I entered into the process of negotiating my salary."

I believe if it wasn’t for that Overview weekend and practicing the skills once again—taking the time to connect with my inner child before entering into negotiations—I probably wouldn’t have even had the confidence to do it. It’s actually just taking that first step into uncomfortable conversations, into the unknown, into uncertainty. A great reminder of how we can stand in our power and confidently express what we think our worth is.

— Natalie

"It was because of this work that I was able to go stand back in that same room."

When I attended a year ago, I couldn’t handle the feedback I got. My ego was too riled up. I just couldn’t take it. So I got back, and it was interesting to be in the same environment with the same people and have them see me so different. I even stood up and said, ‘I couldn’t come back last time because I couldn’t handle your feedback.’ Last year I didn’t make any money—this year, multiple six figures.

— Pamela Dale

"I trusted myself so much that I just let go. Five minutes later, I got the interview."

I’ve been beating myself up, thinking I’m not good enough. So today I did a longer meditation, a longer journal. I said, I know my intention. I trust myself. I know I am good enough. I just gotta let go. And literally five minutes ago, I got an email—I got an interview. The fact that I trusted myself and just let go of the thought ‘why isn’t it working’—that’s everything.

— Sadaf Naji

"I met my partner seven weeks after I got separated. It's a very secure relationship—not a trauma bond."

There was a time I came back from yoga thinking it would be better if I just got hit by a car. The big breakthrough was learning how to reparent myself. I started rescuing myself. A year later, I’m with my new partner—and it’s been magical. I went through a very peaceful divorce. It was probably the most respectful conversation my ex and I had in our six years together. I’m feeling more in my feminine energy. High point win, win, win.

— Vanessa Simpkins

"You helped me see that I had a little voice inside me saying I wasn't good enough. I never knew it was there."

My intention was to clear some resentment I had for my ex-wife. What I had done was essentially waited for a fifteen-year marriage to get through this little block. When I found that voice, I saw flashbacks of how it was affecting different relationships and situations in my life—and allowed me to do all the things that actually are more important.

— Joseph Maimone

"I didn't even know what feelings really were except for the basics—sadness, anger, joy."

Before the program, I was basically living life aimlessly, not paying attention to any details or feelings. But there’s so many more emotions to experience—even like connection with my daughters, with people in general, being able to express my feelings to other men confidently. A completely different awareness than I had six months ago.

— Robert Barcelon

"I'm learning to see the innocence in others and myself."

Some of the simple things Nima said stuck with me—about how things can make sense at the time. That took a huge weight off me. I’ve developed a fabulous connection with my dad who passed away many years ago. I’m kinder to myself. I’m learning what it feels like to be more mature.

— Peggy

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